I cried in church on Sunday. Not sad tears. Just overwhelmingly happy and grateful tears of joy. We're going through the Song of Solomon at church. (
You should check it out!) The closing week was about godly parenting, especially focused on Fathers and Daughters. I felt so blessed to be sitting with my parents in church and reflect on the wonderful life God blessed me with through them. On this Sunday, I was expecially thankful for my dad., Tim Myre.
My dad has four daughters and I'm the oldest. The sermon said that first born daughters tend to see their dad in the best light possible-they don't see any flaw in him. This is true. I do think my dad is the most wonderful man and I married someone who I think is a lot like my dad in many, but not all, ways. I think what makes me love my dad so much is that he doesn't try to hide his flaws. He is always changing and growing and asking for help. Over my 29 years of life, I've seen him change into an even better man every year.
As a father, he truly guarded my and my sisters' hearts. We knew we were loved and treasured by our daddy. He taught us to repsect ourselves and that respecting a man was the first step towards loving him. When it came to boys, he was always quizzing us, and questioning and getting involved. This also meant, among other interventions, he interviewed any boys who were interested in us. Like a sit-down, one on one, interview with serious questions. "What is the first thing that you noticed about my daughter?" This scared the wimpy guys away. The ones left standing, are still standing.
Dad was very present in our home. I have clear memories of him always coming home for dinner, even when he was working two jobs so my mom could stay home with us girls. The best part of the day for me was 3:30pm when his red Ford truck, white Chevy truck or red Ford mustang would come driving around the corner to our house. (those are some of the cars he drove over the years. More recently, my sister Jill(senior in HS has not been thrilled to see his rusty white toyota truck pick her up from Bellevue Christian High School. But that's another story.) He was also there for morning devotions together. He drove us countless places: piano lessons, soccer practice, youth group. I seriously wonder if any person has driven his teenager to Overlake Christian Church more times than Tim Myre. He also wrote us letters. Lots of letters. in his wonderful crazy handwriting. I have stacks of his letters I saved over the years. They always share a little of himeself and speak into my life at that time of my life. He seemed to always know the perfect thing to say when I was feeling lost. He is a selfless man, willing to serve others and especially to serve my mom.
I think one of the most valuable things my dad did for his daughters growing up was to love our mom well. I thank him for this every Father's Day. I can't really express how valuable it is for a girl to watch her dad cherish her mom. My dad loves my mom so much. He builds her up, compliments her clothes, protects her, and serves her. He also takes her on a date every Thursday night for as long as I can remember.
My dad took time to capture our hearts and point us to the Glory of God. His eyes are always fixed on Heaven like he can't wait to get there and see Jesus' face and sing forever. My dad gets excited about the Book of the Revelation and verses about the Rider on a white horse. He will also play songs in the car like "agnus Dei" and raise his hands out the window singing to God.
Some fun stuff about my dad:- He loves to sing as loud as possible. "Belt it!" he always says to us. He loves to write poems and put them to music and sing them at birthday parties and such.
- He will search on you tube for songs he likes and then play them over and over. Clara loves to sing and dance with Bubba when she goes to their house.
- My dad will also repeat certain movie lines over and over until they become familiar family expressions. "You call this a storm?!" (Forrest Gump) "My lip's bleedin, Burt!" (It's a Wonderful Life) "We don't need no stinkin badges."(I actually don't know what this is from.)
- Dad LOVES popcorn-with butter and salt but also loves caramel corn.
- He can fix pratically anything that has a motor.
- He brings the toys and games to any family event. The Hendersons know what I mean!(see previous blogs about Survivor Hood Canal, hydro races, fishing derbys etc.)
Some things that remind me of my dad:
- slot cars
- train sets
- minibikes, go carts
- waterskiing
- lawn mowers
- caramel corn
- I John 5:13
- spark plugs
- dirty fingernails
- The Beattles Twist and Shout
- Guitars
- Eric Clapton
- Pick up trucks
- Red Mustangs
- Die Hard
- wool socks
- outboard motors
- aluminum boats
- angel food cake
- cottage cheese and jam
One more thing my dad always did when we were little girls is dance with us at every wedding our family ever went to. All of us. Four daughters. He'd dance with each one of us. So one of my favorite moments of my life was dancing with my dad at my OWN wedding. It was like a dream come true.
I love you so much dad. Thank you for reflecting to image of God to me. XOXO

